22 September 2006

"Sex is our text: quotes Generation next"

Last day, I met with one of my old friends. We met after 6 years. I was bit surprised the moment I saw him with a girl. I remember he was a guy who used to shy away from the girls. He never believed in female friendship. Anyways, he introduced me to a girl who was one of his girl friends. We three sat together for an hour, enquired about each other’s happenings and many other things. After coming back to room, I called up him and asked about the drastic change, which was evident in his personality. Whatever, that change had really upset me. He told me that he has changed himself a lot. He has started doing all the things, which he has never attempted or never dared to do. Now, he doesn’t run
away from girls. Instead, he feels that girl is one of the entertaining instruments. I am muddled. I don’t know whether sex is an art or it is a method of fulfilling your lust. I am sorry for wandering from the topic. I tell u the reason. Where is this world moving?? Sex is ubiquitous.
Boys go after the size of the boobs of girls. I agree that boobs are there to be seen. The Face doesn’t matter for them. The sex organs matter more for them. If a young woman has got big highs and lows, who cares for the face. Someone has rightly said, “Cover the face, fuck the base”. The boy will be ready to share bed with that girl. Boys keep changing the girl friends or maintaining relationships with different girls simultaneously. Many of you may be doing all this. God Knows. But, I part myself from this attitude. Obviously, I also consider the girls’ highs & lows. But this is not the only criteria for me while judging any girl. What matters for me is the sense of humor of a specific person. The presentability matters for me. No matter how good a girl is by face, how big highs and lows she possesses, if she has bad sense of humor, she fails in my criteria.

The girls are not lesser anywhere. Too much ambiguity in such sotta topics. Though I never reach on conclusions very early. Still, there is something, which is very much evident in girls’ attitude these days. Girls also keep changing their BFs on every second month. The mentality is the more you spend, the more you will be allowed in. Gals are ready to go upto any extent with those guys who really spend money on ‘em like anything. I never mind that. Even I never expect my partner to be virgin before marriage. Moreover, I feel that one should have sex very often. But there is something, which really bothers me all the time. Should I give it a name of ‘sex’ or a name of ‘lust’?

Whatever it is, but it exists everywhere. It’s in the corporate world, in the sports world, in the political world, and also in many other places. Some people do it without insistence and some do it with insistence. Some people are coerced to do this and some people wont let us to coerce them.
Is this the solution of everything? Is this the thing, which is taking the world forward? Have your handwork and persistence taken a rear seat?? OMG, so many interrogations….

13 comments:

Sunny said...

its a fact of 21st century

Sunny said...

its a fact of 21st century

Anonymous said...

everything that you have written is absolutely correct but I would like you to just reflect on the fact that it is you who thinks all this about girls and that is your perspective. have u ever discussed this with a girl? if yes what do girls think? try to add that to your article....... The other thing is that everyone here at this time of the 21st century in India thinks the same that you mentioned, so no one should expect their future partner to be virgin because almost everyone has lost their virginity till now and if someone still has not explored this oppotunity, then please go ahead and do it quickly because sex is an amazing thing and it is a part of love, beleive me.

Anonymous said...

very well said harry... everything is crystal clear u just need to think sensibly n be aware of the things happening wid u or can happend in future... itika

Keshi said...

well I can say one thing...Im not that kind of girl.

**Should I give it a name of ‘sex’ or a name of ‘lust’?

Sex is sacred. It should happen with the right person - with someone u truly love. Cos it's an act of deep love. Sex also happens out of pure lust and just for pro-creation. If sex happens often and without any love or true feelings, then there'd be no difference between humans and animals.

Keshi.

Anonymous said...

This has the become general thinking of the public n attitude of people r changing like nythng...But i think if u r looking only at sexual organs then sex will be called lust and not love...u only want to satisfy ur sexual desires n nothing more...Koi nahin still not 100% has reached this mentality n this is gud....

Harry said...

@Sunny
very true!!

Harry said...

@Anonymous
oh my frnd, I dnt need to ask gals about my views...it is obvious,there are very few people who really accepts what they r..it is always easy to come out with big talks,but its very tough to be practical in their thoughts...
I have never said that all the gals r like that neither I have said that all the boys r like that...it depends on an individual...but yeah, the market trends bound u to think...

Harry said...

@Itika
Thanx iti that u have gone borne me and have given me ur comments..

Harry said...

@Keshi
*Sex is sacred. It should happen with the right person - with someone u truly love. Cos it's an act of deep love*

very true my frnd...

Harry said...

@Abhi
thanx abhi for ur inputs!!...o)

Jewel Rays said...

Focusing more on the sexual parts will definitely be lustful sex . but having sex with a person whom u know and been with and adore and love is Intimate, emotional aand bonding sex ...

Cheers!

Harry said...

@Jewel Rays
yep..
*Focusing more on the sexual parts will definitely be lustful sex*...then sex wont be just the sex...it affronts the definition of sex..