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19 July 2008
16 July 2008
Looking Back. .Looking forward..!!
There is hardly any person who doesn't dream. We say that one dreams while sleeping. Have we ever realised that it is the other way round ? Instead, I should say that dreams are the ones who don't let us sleep. Isn't it? Unfortunately, very few of us trust on our endeavours to attain our dreams. I agree that we will be what we will to be. But we never keep in mind that excellence has always been achieved by those who dares to believe that something inside in superior to circumstances.
The reason why I am writing this post. My roomie Sandy seems to be very pessimistic these days. All the time, he keeps comparing himself with others and keeps getting upset. He has a habit of saying "Harry, will we ever be able to become a successful person"? "wE are an useless being in this world"
And I keep on explaining him that the more you crib, more often you come across with that thing. How can positive things happen with us until we think positive? How can we lead to success until we try to attempt the things with a positive attitude? Why can't we stop regretting on the things which have already been happened? Can't we inculcate the learning in our attitude going forward?
And I keep on emphasising on my favourite quote in front of him "When you really want something, the whole universe conspires to help you achieve it". The quote is from Alchemist.
And his negativity keeps on distracting him from doing the things. And he keeps worrying about his future. Even he feels unfit for his job and keeps thinking to quit that.
The point is that instead of worrying himself over the future, shouldn't he live each day as it comes? This is for all of us. If we will think positive, we will be surprised by the change this attitude will bring in our life. That constant frown disappears and a happy face emerges. You look at your batch mates for the first time as "mates" . You find time to enjoy !! You also find failure is also a single day affair which has to be remembered for that day only . This DOES NOT mean that you should neglecting success. It is the attitude with which you take it matters. They are not the Be-Alls and End-Alls . So relax and give the start with a fresh and relaxed mind. And very important, Have self-belief. Not everyone can do everything with the same competency . So identify what you do well, and try to excel in that. At the same time , try to get a smattering knowledge of things you are not good at, so that you can fit into the conventional definition of a leader !!
The reason why I am writing this post. My roomie Sandy seems to be very pessimistic these days. All the time, he keeps comparing himself with others and keeps getting upset. He has a habit of saying "Harry, will we ever be able to become a successful person"? "wE are an useless being in this world"
And I keep on explaining him that the more you crib, more often you come across with that thing. How can positive things happen with us until we think positive? How can we lead to success until we try to attempt the things with a positive attitude? Why can't we stop regretting on the things which have already been happened? Can't we inculcate the learning in our attitude going forward?
And I keep on emphasising on my favourite quote in front of him "When you really want something, the whole universe conspires to help you achieve it". The quote is from Alchemist.
And his negativity keeps on distracting him from doing the things. And he keeps worrying about his future. Even he feels unfit for his job and keeps thinking to quit that.
The point is that instead of worrying himself over the future, shouldn't he live each day as it comes? This is for all of us. If we will think positive, we will be surprised by the change this attitude will bring in our life. That constant frown disappears and a happy face emerges. You look at your batch mates for the first time as "mates" . You find time to enjoy !! You also find failure is also a single day affair which has to be remembered for that day only . This DOES NOT mean that you should neglecting success. It is the attitude with which you take it matters. They are not the Be-Alls and End-Alls . So relax and give the start with a fresh and relaxed mind. And very important, Have self-belief. Not everyone can do everything with the same competency . So identify what you do well, and try to excel in that. At the same time , try to get a smattering knowledge of things you are not good at, so that you can fit into the conventional definition of a leader !!
13 July 2008
To Hell and Back
"No worries. This is life. Life is a journey which takes you through the different phases of this existence."
All such sour but factual statements have besieged me since las few days. And at the end, you simply say that this is life, destiny, blah blah. I think that most of us keep high expectations from others. Even we are so fool that sometimes, we start expecting the things to go as per our wish.
In last few days, all my expectations have got shattered. This is in terms of everything I do, I have.
I have time for my friends. But they don't have. I am upset.
I put in my efforts in my work in office. But this work has hardly been getting noticed by my manager.
I had to appear for one entrance exam .But couldn't appear in it due to some unavoidable problem. I really grilled myself while preparing for that paper.
Had high expectations from Federer. Unfortunately, he couldn't maintain his winning streak and had lost the match.
Everywhere high expectations. Dont know why. Whose fault ? Fault in my hardwork or fault in my willingness or some amiss in my expectations or might be I was over confident ??
End of the day my cribbing has culminated into learning. That my cribbing is not going to take me anywhere. Life...is our own choice. And at every stage...we will have the choice to choose or not to.. The need of the hour is self-motivation and to enjoy every moment.
MOment of loneliness and moment of happiness.
All the Best!! and Stay Happy!!
Harry
All such sour but factual statements have besieged me since las few days. And at the end, you simply say that this is life, destiny, blah blah. I think that most of us keep high expectations from others. Even we are so fool that sometimes, we start expecting the things to go as per our wish.
In last few days, all my expectations have got shattered. This is in terms of everything I do, I have.
I have time for my friends. But they don't have. I am upset.
I put in my efforts in my work in office. But this work has hardly been getting noticed by my manager.
I had to appear for one entrance exam .But couldn't appear in it due to some unavoidable problem. I really grilled myself while preparing for that paper.
Had high expectations from Federer. Unfortunately, he couldn't maintain his winning streak and had lost the match.
Everywhere high expectations. Dont know why. Whose fault ? Fault in my hardwork or fault in my willingness or some amiss in my expectations or might be I was over confident ??
End of the day my cribbing has culminated into learning. That my cribbing is not going to take me anywhere. Life...is our own choice. And at every stage...we will have the choice to choose or not to.. The need of the hour is self-motivation and to enjoy every moment.
MOment of loneliness and moment of happiness.
All the Best!! and Stay Happy!!
Harry
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